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My ex-husband had s*x with me 11 times in 10 years because he was gay- Daddy Freeze's fiancee Benedicta Elechi grants tell all interview



Daddy Freeze's fiancee Benedicta Elechi who was once married to Paul Odekina, general manager of Human Resource at Total E&P Nigerian Limited has made a startling revelation about the marriage that lasted 10 years and produced three children.

The chef, who has a son with Freeze revealed in a chat wit LIB that, her ex-husband was gay and only married and used her as a coverup for his antics. She said all through their 10 years of marriage, they only had sex 11 times, whenever he wanted a baby.

See excerpts from the interview.

I filed for a divorce from him because of his sexual perversion and there's a point where you get to as a human being when you realise that something or what is your aim is never going to work.
Because when I signed a contract to marry him, I believed I was marrying a man that shared the same type of sexuality with me.
Don't get me wrong, I do not have any issues with people that have different sexual orientation but when you come and say you want to get into a marriage contract with someone, you both have to share the same sexual orientation.
So when you get into that marriage and find out it wasn't what you bargained for, it's like you were tricked into the marriage. The marriage is a sham.
For example, we got married in 2002, I filed for a divorce 2012. For the period of 10-years that we were married, we actually had sexual intercourse just 11 times in 10 years.  He never let me sleep in his room, I have to stay in my own room.
He would only come to see me when he thinks we should make a baby.
Way into the marriage, I caught him red-handed in gay sex. I walked into him in our living room, at about 1:30, 1:40am with a guy I didn't really know. But he obviously walked in with that person at that time of the night, and I walked into them in our living.
I can tell you it was a struggle. You are living in a society where as a woman you have to do everything you can to preserve your marriage. You can come out of it, you just have to pray, God can change things.
There are certain things that we need to know when God is talking to you. It's a little bit emotional for me because there are a lot of women out there that have gone through what I went through and they can't come out.
 I'm sorry, but there are a lot of reasons I never wanted to do an interview. The pain that I went through is real and it can only take a lifetime to forget. 

 When asked if she had any evidence to back up her claims, Benedicta said:
There were some text messages I saw on his phone which he sent to a man he actually brought home for dinner I made for them.
When I saw the text messages on his phone, I was livid. I had to confront him with it. You can't bring someone to the house and tell me he's a guest that I should entertain him, and this is actually what you do, this is the kind of relationship you have with this person.
Why are you punishing me, and why are you doing this to me. If you know this marriage is a sham, then let me go.
When I saw the text I had to wake up from the couch. I confronted him and he went all crazy on me. He said I have no right to pick up his phone.  I told him I had no airtime on my phone and wanted to make a call with his. He said I have no right to go through his phone.
I said to him, is this what you really do, you would bring somebody to the house, for me to feed for dinner and this is it. You are in a sexual relationship with this guy."
 Recall that Daddy Freeze's ex wife Opeyemi Olarinde had accused Benedicta of dating her husband while they were still together. She said Benedicta was part of the reasons they broke up.

We went on holiday to an African country and when we got back the first thing my daughter said to me was “Mummy I’m so glad this is the house we came back to, and not VI.” This is a situation where there was abuse every day.
A year before I left I had to stay in my marriage and be called Benedicta. I have enough evidence with my lawyers that will show all the abuse I went through. He cursed my son for covering me up while he was hitting me. My kids are in a much better place now and are happy. We live in a better situation and a more positive environment.
My kids and I watched an interview he did and thankfully they didn’t cry. They just laughed. I thank God that they are healing.
 She revealed Daddy Freeze would beat her, then put Benedicta on the phone to listen.
He is the only man I’ve ever known for that long, so I didn’t exactly know how to handle what happened to me. There was no go-to book or counsellor; my not responding then was me broken, confused and lost. He used to beat me and put her on speaker phone and say “look I’m beating her and she has refused to leave” then she would scream at me to get out of the house. But I didn’t have anywhere to go. I had no exit strategy but at the end of the day, I had to leave because if I had died that is how the story would have ended.

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